There are plenty of romance options to enjoy in The Sims 4, but sometimes that's not enough. It's not often that you can compliment someone's appearance without it feeling forced. Spamming romance options is a classic part of The Sims, but sometimes you just want a more realistic story.

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Fortunately, The Sims 4's modding community is active in all aspects of the game. Mods allow you to expand the romantic options available in the game. Here we take a look at some of the best romance mods in The Sims 4.
Updated on December 22, 2024 by Jacqueline Zalace: Want to add more romance options to The Sims 4? We've updated this list by adding a few mods that shake up the romance in the game, giving you plenty of options to choose from.
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Expanded Storytelling Relationship Beat Mode
Expanded Storytelling Relationship Beat mode allows you to experience a more personalized relationship. With this mode, Maplebell aimed to create unique relationships. New moodlets now exist, such as “Conflicting Desires” from Love Hate Kiss.
This mode also allows you to set your own relationship 'bits'. For example, you can make the relationship a jealous rivalry or make your Sim a secret admirer. The possibilities are endless!
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More kissing modes
Next, there is another mode from Maple Bell. This mod expands the game's kissing options. For example, you can now give them a shy kiss, or you can give them a hug followed by a surprise kiss.
This mode is relatively simple, but the four new kissing options can add a new aspect to your relationship. The creators of this mod also have a second version that adds three additional kisses, including a forehead kiss!
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Lumpinou's RPO Mod Collection
Lumpinou's RPO (Relationship and Pregnancy Overhaul) mod collection consists of many mods that can be used individually and together. There are currently 19 different options in this mod pack, from expanded WooHoo options to online dating profiles.
Romance and Friendship mode options also allow you to set gender preferences and turn off romantic interactions for specific Sims. Overall, this collection of RPO mods adds realism and uniqueness to The Sims 4, making it feel fresh for veteran players.
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carry and kiss mode
Carry and Kiss is a very simple mod that does what it says it does. With this mod, your Sim can now choose a partner and kiss them. This is a SFW mod that adds some cute kissing interactions to the game (Khlas says it's NSFW compatible).

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Rather than unlocking Carrie and Kiss right away, your Sims must already be in a romantic relationship together and experience their first kiss. So this serves as a cute and unique way to kiss between established couples.
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bed hug mode
Tired of your Sims feeling a little dazed while lying in bed? Do they lie there (tossing and turning sometimes) until morning? Bed Cuddle mode allows your Sims to cozy up together while they sleep at night.
This adorable interaction will also give you a happy moodlet that will last for hours. It's no wonder that cuddling with your partner brings you happiness! When combined with other modes (such as More Kisses), you can create refreshing romantic relationships with new interactions.
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Romantic Surprise Proposal Interaction Mode
Proposing in The Sims 4 can be exciting, but after witnessing dozens of proposals, the experience can become tiresome. With the Romantic Surprise Proposal Interactions mod, three new interactions are now possible. Hand caresses, sitting positions, surprise offers.

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Caress and Sit Propose allow your Sim to propose to their partner while sitting at a table or bar. This mod is also compatible with beds and hot tubs! Additionally, a surprise proposal can provide a picturesque and romantic experience.
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cool moody mode
Wonderful Whims is a SFW version of Wicked Whims (also produced by TURBODRIVER). Wonderful Whims let you add some new features to The Sims 4, from charm to personality.
In real life, people have preferred attractions. So why not add this to The Sims 4? Sims can now have unique romantic preferences, such as a preference for long hair or beards. This mod also adds realistic features such as menstrual cycle and birth control.
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first love mode
Love is a precious thing that can blossom in the form of unrequited love from a young age. With First Love mode, your Sim children can experience feelings of infatuation and even anxiety about confession. But having a crush is not the same as having a boyfriend/girlfriend. Unrequited love is closer to a special friendship.
Once your young Sim becomes friends enough with the person they like, they can even ask him or her to be their boyfriend/girlfriend. Overall, this mod adds small tweaks to the game that make childhood a little more relatable.
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Regency Romance Mode
Want to role-play some Regency? Regency Romance gives you royal experience. This mod includes new additions such as ballroom dancing, scandals, social classes, and etiquette skills that teach your Sims how to properly send letters and bow.
Regency Romance also adds the Bridgerton-inspired Rake trait. The mod describes this trait as “a lovable villain.” [who] It often feels tempting to remember their past exploits.” Reformed Rake Through ambition, you can reform your Rake and help them find their soulmate.
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The Sims 4 Romantic Interactions in Sims 3 Mod
If you have a love for romance in The Sims 3, you're in luck! This simple mod adds the romance options found in The Sims 3 to The Sims 4. The mod page boasts 24 new romantic interactions not previously in the game, including Leap into Arms and Dip Kiss.
It may sound simple, but it can help personalize your romance and make it a little more unique than others. Rather than having the same interactions over and over again, your Sims have more options to choose from. I mean, who wouldn't want to sing Shang Simla?
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Path to Romance Mode
Lastly, there is the Road to Romance mode. This mod adds new skills to the game. Romance. If you don't have dating skills, dating will be a bit awkward at first. Additionally, you don't have access to advanced romance options, such as talking about your ex or giving love advice.
This mode adds realism to the romance as it is definitely a learned experience. Rather than jumping in right away and trying to charm someone, you need to hone your seduction skills. This mode also has counseling and online dating features!